There's an interesting saying, "If you want to know where your heart is, look where your mind goes when it wanders." Does it wander to thoughts and emotions of fear, worry and confusion? Or does your wandering thoughts lead you to feelings of excitement and enthusiasm? Either emotion you choose notice how they're all based on expectations of future events. Whether you're sending signals of positive expectations or negative depends entirely on the actions you have taken in the past and at the present moment.
The past you are creating today, however, is HIGHLY significant! Guard you thoughts, feeling and your emotions with your Life! Take each day moment by moment with the mindset that what you are doing or thinking this very moment not only shapes your future, but will also be the past you are creating today!
Eliminating stale conversations will take practice at first, but eventually it will be second nature to you. Perhaps you will even become a leader at setting the tone for refreshingly productive conversations.
Even the most motivated of us — you, me, Tony Robbins — can feel unmotivated at times. In fact, sometimes we get into such a slump that even thinking about making positive changes seems too difficult. But it’s not hopeless: with some small steps, baby ones in fact, you can get started down the road to positive change.
The preceding 10 solutions encourage deep self-reflection followed by massive action. Whereas the next four solutions address the obstacles we encounter as a result of our everyday raw human emotions, and how to master the mundane simply and effectively.
Do you find yourself needing to be offered the chance to win vacations, automobiles, cash or prizes in order to become motivated? Or do you find receiving threats of being fired more effective? Which ever you choose, both are legitimate motivators. One is known as a "toward" motivator; meaning, to work toward something, such as a new automobile or a trip to Europe. The other is known as an "away" motivator; meaning, to work away from something, such as debt or death.
Once you get a handle on the majority of your negative feedback the next step is to write your goal statement in bold motivational terms; such as “I am the best lawn care specialist in the World,” or “I am the most respected cat sitter in the World.” To say “I am the best . . . ,” in today’s terms does not mean most talented. Being the best could mean most successful in your given field, or most well-known such as, The Dog Whisperer, Cesar Milan. Cesar successfully created a unique system not only for training dogs but for presenting the information to dog owners. Cesar's motto is, “I rehabilitate dogs, I train people.” We do not know if Cesar is the best dog trainer in the world. But we know Cesar is an innovative dog rehabilitator and the best known dog trainer in the World. He got there not only by
Just as effortless as it is to worry, positive thoughts must also be made without strain if they are to be effective. Goals should not be a struggle to visualize nor should they cause stress with the mere thought of them. Affirm your goals with adoration so they are non-intimidating or tension creating. If you cannot find it in yourself to feel excitement and love towards the goal you seek, then it is not the right goal for you at this time. You should feel passion for the task at hand. One of the most important solutions towards achieving a goal is to consistently approach it with care and gentleness until you feel genuinely indifferent to its outcome. When you reach the state of genuine indifference that is when you are truly on track towards achieving that goal.
Time for some fun! The next real solution to help take control and live your best life is through a gradual what if mentality. When we worry about the what ifs we form adverse mental pictures. We then respond to negative pictures as if they were our present reality. © Gloria-leigh | Dreamstime.com Since our nervous system cannot distinguish between a real experience and an imaginary event, the importance of guarding our thoughts closely becomes clearly apparent. Every belief whether good or bad, true or false was formed gradually without effort, sense of strain or will power. Habits are created in much the same way. In our predictions of doom society it is easy to understand how negativity sinks effortlessly into our subconscious! For this reason alone it makes perfect sense to
Most people you are in competition with are not going to give 100 percent. Reason being many have the same unrelenting negative feedback, emotional sabotage, and failure to plan. What is 100%? When you think of it, 100% is comfort level. Like water that seeks its own level, each individuals 100 percent should be what feels right for them.
Have you ever been so excited about something that you enthusiastically relayed the information in detail only to have your listeners throw you a blank stare? You quickly realize they either are not listening, they don't care, or they are not on board for whatever reason. So why worry about how to be your best? This is why! Even if you give the best presentation you possibly can you may not receive immediate feedback. It could be days, weeks or even months before people respond. Unfortunately many business people give up by the time
By the time you finish reading the following 20+ solutions, you will realize the majority of information coming at us is of no benefit to our goals. The doom and gloom predictions, and stories of pessimism do us no good. We were meant to live happy, healthy, and peaceful lives. We are all given special talents and abilities that will allow us to be the best! If we continue to follow negative beliefs or chaotic ways then we will never realize our true potential and purpose.